What Does Your Attitude Say About You

Let’s test our view of Attitude…

1. When you’re thinking to yourself, you tend to use positive words and encouraging phrases.
2. You don’t worry about things you can’t control.
3. Most to all of your friends have upbeat attitudes.
4. In the past month, you’ve described yourself as depressed.
5. You tend to think about your strong points more than your weak points.
6. Even when things are stressful, you are able to focus on what needs to be done.
7. If someone criticizes you, you tend to take it in the worst light.
8. You are usually the first person to give out a compliment.
9. You have something good to say about everyone, even your enemies.
10. When you think about getting older, you are:   Pessimistic   Or       Optimistic
11. You tend to expect the worst in people.
12. You are not a procrastinator. You tend to get things done on time.
13. When something goes wrong in a group you tend to: Blame yourself  Or  Blame others.
14. You tend to be quite afraid of losing people you love.
15. You have good posture.
16. When talking to strangers, you tend to smile and try to sound friendly.
17. Instead of participating in gossip, your rule is to say something nice or nothing at all.
18. You tend to like to be well dressed and looking your best.
19. You are often reminding yourself what you should be doing.
20. You find it easy to forgive people and forget about the bad things that have happened to you.

Yes… This is a test. You get to think through all the answers and answer to the best of your ability. So. What would this test say about you? How positive are you? How negative are you? Where do you struggle the most? What changes could you make to have a more positive attitude….

Here are my results!

“You have a positive attitude… Some of the time!
You prefer to see the world through clear glasses, not rose colored glasses…”

So… Without taking the test and having another person analyze the results, could you tell everyone honestly what kind of person are you?Or, what kind of person are you meant to be?

The known factors of your life…Your DNA, how you were raised, are not always equal to who you have become. There is an unknown factor in every situation… It is often your attitude. Your attitude defines how you think:

• Life, politics, race, career, etc.
• God, Spirituality, Religion
• Family, Friend, Others
• And yourself

What is Attitude if it is the most important thing in our life. It is the difference between a happy and unhappy. People with the right attitude often have a life full of Joy, regardless of their status in life, family, finances, career, home life, health… What is attitude?

Attitude is an inward feeling expressed by behavior.

Attitude is the visible form of how we feel about something

• Its roots are inward but its fruit is outward.
• It is our best friend at some times; at other times it is our worst enemy.
• It is more honest and consistent than the words that come out of our mouth.
• It is an outward look based on past experiences.
• It is the thing that draws people to us or repels them from us.
• And it is never content until it is expressed.
• It is the librarian of our past.
• It’s the speaker of our present.
• It’s the prophet of our future.

Here’s where my thinking is today, and it’s really very important. How do we adjust and change our attitude? Much of what we take into adult life comes from our background, you know, life at home, experiences, training, what we saw on TV and in the Movies. But the most important thing about attitude revolves around what you see in yourself, and what you are willing to change about your outcome.

Who gives you your foundation for change? A family friend, coach, mentor, or do you have some deeper resource that helps you face the future. There are ways we can focus our attention to change our attitude, only, we have to be in charge of our inward feelings so that our outward expression will reflect who and what we are.

It was the Apostle Paul, writing to Gentiles and Jews alike, that there is a framework for an attitude that is based on Christ. Not your mind, but his.

Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus:
(Philippians 2:5, KJV)

Notice. This is the “inward” focus of the Mind of Christ within us, and it should be directing the attitude we live outward.

What is the Mind of Christ? He came to seek and save the lost, to redeem the world from sin, and to teach the world an expansion of the Old Testament Law. At the beginning of His ministry, Jesus gives us His Mind… He gives us our attitudes and we simply call them “beatitudes…”

And seeing the multitudes, he went up into a mountain: and when he was set, his disciples came unto him: And he opened his mouth, and taught them, saying, 
Blessed are the poor in spirit:
for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. 
Blessed are they that mourn:
for they shall be comforted. 
Blessed are the meek:
for they shall inherit the earth. 
Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness:
for they shall be filled. 
Blessed are the merciful:
for they shall obtain mercy. 
Blessed are the pure in heart:
for they shall see God. 
Blessed are the peacemakers:
for they shall be called the children of God. 
Blessed are they which are persecuted for righteousness’ sake:
for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. 
Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake.
Matthew 5:1-11 KJV 

Think about these key words straight from Jesus. If ever there are words that frames what our attitude should be, these are solid words to begin with. Even with this message, regardless of your situation, Jesus tells them how to resolve the issues revolving around the status of our attitude.

Rejoice, and be exceeding glad: for great is your reward in heaven: for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you.
Matthew 5:12

Consider the Apostle Paul as an example. Under the law he was a good man with a focus of eradicating the followers of Jesus. He had the authority from the religious leaders to do what he did. In the beginning we know him as Saul. He has an attitude issue against Christians.

And Saul, yet breathing out threatenings and slaughter against the disciples of the Lord, went unto the high priest,  (2)  And desired of him letters to Damascus to the synagogues, that if he found any of this way, whether they were men or women, he might bring them bound unto Jerusalem.  (3)  And as he journeyed, he came near Damascus: and suddenly there shined round about him a light from heaven:  (4)  And he fell to the earth, and heard a voice saying unto him, Saul, Saul, why persecutest thou me?  (5)  And he said, Who art thou, Lord? And the Lord said, I am Jesus whom thou persecutest: it is hard for thee to kick against the pricks.  (6)  And he trembling and astonished said, Lord, what wilt thou have me to do? And the Lord said unto him, Arise, and go into the city, and it shall be told thee what thou must do.  (7)  And the men which journeyed with him stood speechless, hearing a voice, but seeing no man.  (8)  And Saul arose from the earth; and when his eyes were opened, he saw no man: but they led him by the hand, and brought him into Damascus.  (9)  And he was three days without sight, and neither did eat nor drink.  (10)  And there was a certain disciple at Damascus, named Ananias; and to him said the Lord in a vision, Ananias. And he said, Behold, I am here, Lord.  (11)  And the Lord said unto him, Arise, and go into the street which is called Straight, and enquire in the house of Judas for one called Saul, of Tarsus: for, behold, he prayeth,  (12)  And hath seen in a vision a man named Ananias coming in, and putting his hand on him, that he might receive his sight.  (13)  Then Ananias answered, Lord, I have heard by many of this man, how much evil he hath done to thy saints at Jerusalem:  (14)  And here he hath authority from the chief priests to bind all that call on thy name.  (15)  But the Lord said unto him, Go thy way: for he is a chosen vessel unto me, to bear my name before the Gentiles, and kings, and the children of Israel:  (16)  For I will shew him how great things he must suffer for my name’s sake.
Acts 9:1-16

Long after his ministry is fully established and he is doing the work that Jesus called him to, Paul describes his life of suffering, even though we call him the greatest soul winner. His life was not an easy life! (2 Corinthians 11:22-23)

Not only did he struggle as previously mentioned, there was something very personably wrong with his body or life. (2 Corinthians 12:7-10) We are not given to understand the problem, but it could be something as simple as a vision problem because he writes about a large letter he wrote to the church in Galatia, and the letter is not as large as others. (Galatians 6:11) The phrase used for “large” has nothing to do with number of words, rather, it focuses on the size of the writing.

Paul communicates to the church at Thessalonica. With bullet like percision, Paul gives them what I call seven attitude reminders and then he tells us the results of having these attitudes.

(1.) Rejoice evermore. 
(2.) Pray without ceasing. 
(3.) In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.
(4.) Quench not the Spirit. 
(5.) Despise not prophesyings. 
(6.) Prove all things; hold fast that which is good. 
(7.) Abstain from all appearance of evil.
(Results) And the very God of peace sanctify you wholly; and I pray God your whole spirit and soul and body be preserved blameless unto the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.  Faithful is he that calleth you, who also will do it. Brethren, pray for us.  Greet all the brethren with an holy kiss. I charge you by the Lord that this epistle be read unto all the holy brethren.
1 Thessalonians 5:16-27

See. There is a benefit from having a good attitude! Let me share with you some thoughts that are my personal view of positive attitude, based on Paul’s seven attitudes. Maybe I’m a little naive, but I think a good attitude is as simple as this. I’ve rearranged them into these 7 Focuses of a Good Attitude

(1.) Keep a spirit of enthusiasm.

Verse 19: “Do not quench the Spirit.” (Do not put out the Spirit’s fire (NIV)). In other words, “Keep a spirit of enthusiasm.” Alive. Active! Enthusiasm in the original language is “God in us!”

(2.) Welcome life positively.

Verse 16 : “rejoice always” or “welcome life positively”! We have many setbacks in life. We have many curves thrown at us. Paul tells us that when things come that would cause us not to rejoice; we should embrace life in a positive way. He suffered greatly, but his attitude was focused!

(3.) Dare to be an open person.

Verse 17, he tells us to “pray without ceasing.” We know what prayer is: communion with God. It is walking with and listening to God. Keep your heart open, let God speak to you. Let Him teach you in all affairs of life. Let Him minister to you. You will deal with much of life in a way that may not be positive, but remaining open helps keep you positive.

(4.) Exhibit a thankful heart.

Verses 17: “In everything give thanks, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” He says that we are to look at life with a heart full of thanksgiving. I like to think of it as “thanks-living.” An attitude of gratitude concerning what God has blessed us with will keep us living positive.

(5.) Welcome the future as a friend.

Verse 20: “Do not despise prophetic utterances.” This speaks of things about what will happen in the future. Do not despise them. Jesus showed Paul things he would suffer… We need to look forward with Anticipation! There are blessings that come from suffering and not being worried about the ending.

(6.) Set goals with care and courage.

Verse 21: “Examine everything carefully and hold fast to that which is good.” Be courageous, be tenacious, as we pursue that which we feel God has for our life. Keep the Good, Discard the bad. Keep Your Focus!

(7.) Overcoming Evil with Good

Verse 22:  Paul says that we are to abstain from every form of evil. Not only to abstain from evil, but rather be involved in ministry. So, that, we are to overcome evil by doing good.

So… Can you work on your attitude? Are there tools to help? Sure. But I truly think the attitude is better prepared when you have a better foundation. I cannot think of a better way to Spiritually Grow than to have Christ in your life. It makes your attitude better!